I’ve never had a problem with knowing what I wanted and exactly where I expected to go, it’s just that lately there are been some opportunities that I thought would help me reach those points. Then I learned that making those moves would prevent me from doing the things that would help me grow as an author, so I put an end to it. Reason being they prevented me from being the person I wanted to be and I can’t abide by that. I’ve always been reasonable in certain situations but when you try to bully me or guilt me into making a move I’m neither comfortable with or ready for, I have to put the breaks on it.
I’m at the age where every decision has a consequence and one should tread lightly while doing them and not take anything for granted. I have a motto that I live by which is: Always have a plan, never leave your wellbeing in somebody else’s hands. No truer words have ever been spoken especially lately when I felt people didn’t have my best interest at heart and were only looking out for themselves. I have learned in my eight years in this business to always look out for number one or you’ll libel to step in number two. That’s it for now, until next time: Where love resides-Temari
Author Temari James 